Monday, March 20, 2006

loyaL BUT fLirtAtiouS


now now...i'm not really talking about myeslf. in fact i would like to talk about some guys that i know and probably apply for a lot of guys out there as well. recently, i have found this very shocking discovery. i never realise that things actually happened this way. i thought they did it because of something else. alright... no more guesssing...


the story starts this way, attached/married men who has another girlfriend outside the family is usually very loyal to their girlfriends/wives. maybe not exactly 'LOYAL' but they definitely love them alot. initially, i thought that all guys who did that have only one reason: they are sick and bored of their partners. then i realised i might be a bit wrong...


the fact is (for some guys only, yea? NOT ALL).. they actually lvoes their partners alot alot? and they will do anything to have them back. but you might think, why wanna be such bastards in the first place by being with other girls at the same time? i asked, and i got no answer. they really couldn't give me an answer. they didn't know why. i didn't know why either. so let's put it this way, it's just a 'NATURAL' thing in some guys? hUh? what the fuCk rite?


girls who heard about these kind of stories will definitely label them bastards/fuckers/player... you name it. but i guess we will never know the truth. i was one of those normal girls too... if i hear people saying "he has a gf/wife, but he's with another girl too", i'll exclaim "wAH !!suCh BAstARDS!" now, after i hear a few true life stories, i doubt myself too whether i was being biased or not without knowing the truth.


one story i heard was, he's married and he's really young and his wife was his first girlfriend. they dated since form 2 or something and married a few years after that... and now they're still married with kids. seems like a very nice guy, yes..he is actually. the real turn off maybe is the fact that he haD gfs before with his 'married' status. but he didn't cheat on those girls..they knew he's married and yet they wanna be with him. AND he still loves his wife and goes home no matter what. why? i dunno. mistery remain unsolved.


another story, this guy's really flirtatious. goes clubbing and seems like he doesn't care whether he has a gf not... the truth is, he likes this girl since form 1 till now. it's 11 years already. and he still wants her.. the problem? he's very shy and he can't be himself whenever he faces that girl. i guess he just made himself look like a player to disguise his very 'embarassing weakness'? this, i have no idea too.


and these few guys who happened to be my friends, i don't know whether to critic them or admire their ' unfaltering loyaly'. but anyhow, they're still ,my friends... and i kinda accepted that fact calmly. with a little bit of my lecture of course. what? i can't control myself. dang.


but hell, i won't care more or less unless he's my boyfriend. but if my bf is like that, i don't think i can take it so calmly anymore. probably just grab a knive or stick nearby and chase him to hell.. hAhaha...

1 comment:

simply me, Jason said...

Okay I surrender... I was that type of guy once =) but then again, you've probably already know that. *wink*.... hey after all... I remain loyal.